St Mary's Church

Stoke D'Abernon, Surrey

In the Community

Members of St Mary's are actively involved in supporting the work of various community enterprises, providing both financial and practical assistance wherever possible.


Oasis logoOasis is a Cobham-based charity which was set up in 1996 to offer support and help to disadvantaged families, working with families where the children's circumstances are often symptomatic of years of unresolved issues for the parents and the family unit as a whole.

The services and facilities provided by Oasis combine to bring stability and hope to their clients and they include:

A "drop-in" centre for long-term preventative and supportive service to children, their families and carers.
A family support and "emergency" crisis intervention 24-hour service working directly with families and individuals every day of the year.
Direct counselling and guidance from a range of professional disciplines on a one-to-one basis.
The Family Centre, which is run by experienced and trained professionals, currently open three times per week for 51 weeks per year, welcoming older children during the school holidays.

Oasis are continually grateful to their supporters and volunteers, without whom their work would not be possible.

Cobham Care

Cobham Care is an organisation which exists to help elderly members of the community who are without transport to keep appointments at the local health centre, hospitals or clinic. It was set up on the 1970s by a group of health visitors and funded originally by all the local churches. Several members of St Mary's congregation are voluntary drivers for Cobham Care or are past drivers who have now retired from driving either through age or infirmity. New volunteers are always welcome. Drivers are contacted each week to see if they are available but there is no need to commit to be available to drive on a regular basis. All requests for transport come through Cobham Health Centre, via the clinic co-ordinator, and are vetted to make sure the passengers have no other help available. Drivers can claim their petrol expenses, which are funded by donations given by passengers.

Meals on Wheels

New volunteers are always welcome to the Meals on Wheels service. Contact Cobham Day Centre (01932 867601) for more information about how you can help.


WASPS (Widowed and Single People) is a monthly lunch club specifically aimed at people who live alone and who wish to have the opportunity to get together and enjoy fellowship and conversation.

WASPS has been thriving for well over fifteen years and in that time has helped many people from St Mary's and the wider Stoke D'Abernon community.

Parish Lunch

2013 saw the introduction of a monthly Parish Lunch which takes place in our church hall on the third Wednesday of each month from 12.30pm and offers the opportunity for an informal light lunch and some pleasant company. Members of the congregation are actively encouraged to bring friends along to share fellowship with us. The cost is £5.00 per head.  There is a short hall communion at 12 noon for those wishing to attend before lunch.


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Visiting the Church

For Church opening times during the current Covid restrictions please go to the Visiting St Mary's page for more details.